Okay, obviously I don’t know any of these people personally, but I’m getting rather frustrated with this mainstream fad of automatically labeling the girl as the “bitch”. I can’t speak for this specific incident, but because it’s somewhat relevant to my diatribe, I’m using it to illustrate my point.
Why the hell is it that when a guy is “desperately in love” with a girl and she doesn’t requite those feelings, all of the sudden he was the one who was wronged and abused? (Okay, maybe this isn’t the best example because the concert ticket thing was kind of cold.) But how come when a girl is mooning over a guy who doesn’t like her back, she’s “too desperate” or a “slut” or some such bullshit?
Additionally, you’d think that after about four years of constant rejection, he’d get a hint. She’s NOT INTERESTED. Would it be so terrible to respect that? Just because you “love” a girl doesn’t mean she’s obligated to have sex with you or be your wife or WHATEVER.
And speaking as someone who has personally been stalked by a “admirer” (*coughpsychologicallyandemotionallyunstablebaby*), it’s really not actually that romantic when a guy persistantly follows a girl around like an incoming predator drone. It’s really stressful, actually. As in ninja-roll-behind-things-and-change-your-routines-every-day-to-impair-this-person’s-ability-to-stalk-you stressful. What we don’t get from this lovely, mildy -EXTREMELY- prejudiced facebook clip is testimony as to whether she ever told him to STOP. It’s one thing to pull a Peeta Mellark on someone who actually appreciates or acknowledges/accepts your attention. But if a girl repeatedly tells you to give her space, or take things slower, to just be friends, or point-blank to go away, that literally means “SOD OFF. GTFO,” and not “Oh, yes! Continue to stalk me like a starved zombie! I secretly love you!”
LET ME LOVE YOUR FOREVER, ZOE.
No girl is obligated to like a guy, just because he likes her. If it were the other way around, and a girl chased after a boy like this, she would be “creepy” and “desperate”.
Actualy,this whole facebook post piss me the fuck off. The more I look at it, the angrier I get. Seriously, that boy isn’t entitled to ANYTHING. Maybe he should treat her as a PERSON, with her own problems, and opinions- then she might actually like him! I fucking HATE this whole “nice guy” syndrome- just because he’s sweet to her, she has to date him? And she is a bitch if she doesn’t? Ugh. UGH.
And the comments below just BHJKDUJNEMKENJ. UGHHHHHHHHH.
This deserves a repost
THIS DESERVES A REPOST EVERY TIME IT COMES ON YOUR DASH
forever reblog
(via imgTumble)I hope this zoey byotch dies alonewhat the fuck, the least you could do was blur out her name, you know she could sue whoever uploaded this? but boy she’s a bitch…
